WHY ME????

Evening,
well this month so far has been one roller coaster after another....and no matter what i do i will never be right!!!!
so it started a week ago..........
my darling middle son came in on a friday night at 9.30pm and considering we go to bed and lock the door at 10pm i was not exactly happy about this....especially when he told me he had been hanging around at diss park with a group of adults who are notorious for dealing with drugs and alcohol.
I know what you are asking and thinking......Why not give him a door key....well let me explain....not only is my DS forgetful but he forgets to put on his underwear and to wash and to bother with his homework diary,and bearing in mind he's on his 4th homework diary this year.what chance have we got with a door key????I know we ought to have a little more faith in him but to be honest when he asks us to remind him to pack his bag....and he asks us to remind him to wash...and he asks us to remind him to put his laundry in the bathroom on a friday night,in all honesty what chance have we got??????
still he is ultimatley my son and i cannot change things as they are at the minute....so i will have to try something else.